A Few Common Q&A's
LOVE reading your responses on a previous post, and want to expand a little on three most frequently repeated comments:
“Wow! 7 kids! You are a superwoman, I can’t get anything done with my 1 (2/3...)! Feel like a failure now”
First of all, every woman is a superwoman. Regardless is she is has kids or not, I firmly believe that any woman is a mother to someone in some way.
Second, i don’t get EVERYTHING done. I get done that which is important to me, and figuring out how to prioritize and what is important came with experience and a few bumps that I acquired along the way.
And third, last thing ANY of you should feel is failure. It’s ridiculously hard to live. The fact you are alive and, obviously, managed to have a good enough day to be reading these words is a success already. As far as kids - I don’t think a number of kids (or having kids at all!) defines success. To me, it turned out to be my path, although if you are a long-term follower, you know I never saw myself as a mom of many kids at the start of my life.
Let’s just uplift each other. We can all use more of that!
“You must have nerves of steel to have 7 kids!”
Personally, I think one needs nerves of steel to deal with adults. I don’t get worked up by kids, I rest with them
“How do keep in shape? It must be genetics”
Guys, I think we all wish we had genetics to eat cookies and look fab. I wish too!
For me, it’s daily diet and lifestyle that make a difference, but I am not perfect. Over the years those two made the biggest impact on my health and well-being.
Are you into health-wellness-well-being?
Should we talk more about it here?